He was being a dick to me.
K: "I'm sooo the opposite of sad right now."
Me: "Oh really? And what's so fantastic that you're so happy?"
K: "Ashley."
Me: "Aaaaw that is so cute lol"
K: "She's fantastic."
Me: "At least she's not in the navy. :("
K: "J is....."
Me: "He's what?"
K:" he is a.... "
"d u m b a s s."
Me: "So I take it you don't like him."
K: "Most everybody doesn't like him."
Me: "I know. But I do."
K: "It's okay. Fucking is fucking."
"So he must be good at it."
Me: "Excuse me?"
K: "You're excused."
Me: "What did you mean by 'fucking is fucking'?"
K: "Fucking is good. And he must be good at it for you."
Me: "Oh I see. So you're saying that the only reason why I would be with him is for sex?"
K: "If you say so."
Me: "You don't know what the fuck you're talking about."
K: "babe I'm messin wit ya."
Me: "Are you saying just kidding because you really were kidding or because I got upset?"
K: "You got upset? ha ha ha ha ha! That's funny. You're being a bit touchy."
Me: "I don't think I'm being touchy. First you call J a dumb ass, tell me no one likes him, and then you say that all I want him for is sex. You tell me how I'm being touchy."
K: "k"
Me: "You're being really mean to me. I really like you, we're good friends. So I'm really confused..."
K: "Well you only like me when I'm sad, and other than that you treat me like nothing!"
Me: "I do not! And I'm sorry if I came off that way I didn't mean to!"
K: "bye"
BEING TOO TOUCHY?! Really though?! Sex is a sensitive subject for me and he knows that. I've been used for sex before and I won't let it happen again. I would never use someone else for sex because I know how it feels. It stings and it hurts, it makes you feel like you belong in a garbage can.
And I don't care if people don't like Mr. Boot Camp, I love him. He's not understood and people don't like things they don't understand sometimes.
I'm so surprised that he said those things to me. I really like him, I've always considered him to be a good friend to me. And all of a sudden those mean words!
Maybe I am being too sensitive?
I'm so confused.
Sounds to me like "K" wants to use or be used for sex. Tell him to save his breath for his inflatable date.
ReplyDeleteSometimes we say things and not necessarily think how our friends may take it. Other times, we say things for a certain reaction.
ReplyDeleteThink more about your question after a few days, then see how you feel. Being as he knows it's a sensitive subject for you, it wouldn't hurt to refresh his memory.
I understand your confusion. And sometimes topics we are sensitive regarding we do tend to get more bent out of shape about (especially myself) knowing the person knows.
Just one of those miscommunications friends have.