Watched Super Troopers. :)
So there's been something puzzling me for awhile. But I think I got it figured out! I've wrote about it before. Probably. I dunno, I don't remember!
Anyways I was wondering why guys tend to fall for me so hard. So I asked my little sister and she said, "It's probably because you have red hair and you're approachable." That didn't make much sense to me though. So I asked someone else. Know what he said? "You're not a typical girl. Guys expect girls to worry about what they look like, drama, or what the hell ever. But it doesn't seem to compute in your head. So when a guy meets you it's like...damn!"
And I realized that he is completely right. Know what I'm thinking about most of the time? Food. Not even kidding you. French fries, steak...oh and candy. Definitely candy. Plus I'm addicted to photography and writing. I hate doing my hair, it's a pain in the ass. And I'm (for the most part) really comfortable with my personality. So I'm kinda like, "OMFG HEY GUYS I'M BECKI! LET'S GO ROLLERSKATING AND MAKE FUN OF ME WHEN I FALL DOWN A BILLION TIMES!" For real, right?! I refuse to let drama into my life, I just walk away from it. (Unless the drama is family-related. You don't walk away from that shit. But my family doesn't have lots of drama.) I'm comfortable with the way I look, I shop at thrift stores for the ugliest clothes for Christ's sakes.
So it finally makes sense. Guys like me because I'm not fucking nuts and dramatic.
Creativity is the biggest turn on, above all else. Of course I can only speak for myself, but I think many people feel the same way. And chances are if someone is creative they are also slightly eccentric and tend to look at life through kaleidoscope eyes, seeing and experiencing and processing everything in a unique way, which is also a big turn on.
ReplyDeleteI need more creative people in my life, I'm tired of being the only one. I want to gang up and tackle this town together! Now, where do I go searching...